If you don't think you can be happy in the relationship, end it. AskMen on Twitter. I believe she's never realized it, but everyone around her can see her needs, her craving for that. Keep in mind that you may have trust issues with people other than her because of what happened so you might as well give it another shot. The girl and I got back together. Would you? Assuming you two hadn't slept together before she did this, it's absolutely normal and to be expected. It's no wonder the relationship is unbalanced. Often, this is her way of easing her guilt and fear and easing her uncertainty about what this new chapter in her life really means. Just be careful.
There are still plenty of reasons to live, so please reach out for help if you are having suicidal thoughts. Sooner or later, when guys and gals mess around on their girlfriends or boyfriends, it catches up with you. I can tell by his expression that he's dying to grill me about all the gory details and on the brink of saying that he can only continue to trust me if I vow to never see that guy in any setting ever again, even if it's by accident. You need to decide whether you can accept it or not. It's funny huh, when we remember our childhood dreams? Consider taking on this Breakup Strategy:. That doesn't mean it's bad that you feel hurt about this! Somehow I don't feel this describes you, and her. No one usually thinks and reasons when they are drunk.
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You'd hurt yourself far, far worse by acting unprincipled and small-minded and foolish but you're welcome to do that, except for the part about it also hurting her, which you don't get to do. And that means utterly different motivations, different valuations, and different actions, not contingent, per se, upon you. She had no comittment to you of any kind, and it's totally unreasonable for you to have expected one. Worst than someone spits on your face. I'd like to hear opinions of those that have found out that their partner had a lot of sex with many different partners after you started to date them too, but to be honest, if it turns out that's the case with my girlfriend, I don't think I'll be able to trust her, and it'll sadly have to be over. Those may interest you: My girlfriend loves me, but she broke up with me and I want her back. Forgot your username or password? Neither of you is "wrong", but there is clearly a mismatch in your value system. If you're only willing to date folks who have sex in comitted relationships, thats fine. Be the man who does have the responsibility for what happens to your beloved and you will find the meaning of the incident.
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- You feel hurt, that's a fact - can she understand that, can she empathize, do you need her to act as if she was in the wrong or do you just need her to acknowledge that you feel hurt?
- If like this who is harmed?
- Maybe not right now though.
- I too remember your username and your last question.
- Both of you caused the relationship to deteriorate and holding on to the past is just going to lead you down the same path.
Log In Sign Up. Keep me logged in on this device Forgot your username or password? Don't have an account? Sign up for free! Topic Archived Page 1 2 3 4 of 4 Next Last. Sign Up for free or Log In if you already have an account to be able to post messages, change how messages are displayed, and view media in posts. When she slept with him you two weren't together, correct? Personally, I feel you have no right to feel this much distress over it. User Info: EdMcK You were split up when it happened. It wasn't cheating. You say you hope it doesn't happen again, but that would entail you breaking up again for it to happen. You seem to be making a big to do about nothing, and honestly I don't think this will last if you are dwelling on something that happened when you were split up. Its true that we werent together but if she wanted to be with me she shouldnt of done it. Why should I take her back if she used the opportunity to sleep with another guy?
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It's Metafilter's 20th anniversary! To celebrate, scan igrlfriend cats or help fund Mefi! We got talking about previous sexual partners last night and she mentioned she had sex with someone else a week after we started going out. Am I wrong to be hurt? Thanks for taking the time to read my Stepmamxxx. As I've said, I've been with my girlfriend for about 9 months now. We've had our ups and downs, but we really love slepy other, and I really want to qnother the relationship work. Yesterday we were having a conversation that somehow moved onto previous people we have been with. I knew that this wasn't a Humongous penis thing for us to be talking about as these conversations haven't tended to end very well in the past. This was no exception, unfortunately. My girlfriend told me that she had sex with someone else about a week after we had met.
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Before you can post or reply in these forums, please join our online community. The problem is, I'm far from the figure of a father she always wanted. And I worked so hard to be the best for her, I did everything I could to give her what she needs, to make her happy. She came honest with me that they already had sex. I feel powerless, humiliated, small and no use to live.
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My gf and I have been dating for six months. We became I know I need to man up but knowing she was with another guy while with me hurts. Hello Reddit, So basically my girlfriend and I have been together for a you will always wonder if she is out screwing another guy when she is. My reason is because I've been in that "talking" phase with guys and . If you weren't officially "together" with her when you first slept with her.