You are doing what you think is best. Please select 'ok' to extend your session and prevent losing any content you are working on from being lost. I do and I don't. But before you jump to that, know this is part of the process. As long as I was in the picture he wasn't going to form an emotional connection with another woman. It sounds like you think the breakup was right for you, but wrong for her, and you feel guilty for yanking a good thing out from under her. It is probably best now to mentally step back and have a think about how you want to approach this. To celebrate, scan some cats or help fund Mefi! It sounds like it was a pretty tough conversation, especially to hear that she just didn't have the same feelings for you in terms of romantically. I think everyone reading can remember how confusing and defeating it feels. I know she cares about me still and has love for me because i could see that in our phone all a few days later. We both gave up a lot to be together. Ive just had a hard time with this as she means the world to me and i care about her soo much. It's not fair or healthy to you. I hope that makes you feel better.
Hello OBJ, I'm glad to hear you're going to try and go in and see what happens. Meet new people. I have loved before. You'll watch them grow into fascinating complex people and you'll grow with them. My girlfriend keeps assuming im cheating on her when im not! It's a bit like that. Tweet this thread. It's a prudent choice.
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Girls tend to use guys post-break up for emotional support as they slowly let go. Through it all you will be ok. You don't need to be the life of the party, or go to drunken parties, to get involved in the many opportunities there are at college. It gets worse. It sounds like you think the breakup was right for you, but wrong for her, and you feel guilty for yanking a good thing out from under her. So we were on break yet we didnt act like we were for a month but she knew she still needed space i dont know why she didn't just tell me that in the first place. At that time she was involved with someone else. Hover around the edges, ask questions, chime in when you feel comfortable. Hey, I know you are not w I was filled with regret and embarrassment. We have a great chemistry and sometimes bicker at each other like we are some old couple. As trite as that sounds..
My first girlfriend broke up with me, but its so confusing
- Eventually you will understand what you really want, and then you will meet a person who fits many of those qualities.
- She may be misguided and hurting me by this text but this is not on purpose and she is such a pure soul.
- Once she sees you moving on, she might come back.
We have had a long distance relationship since day 1. We often talked about living together and what pets we would get when i come back to live in the same city which is only 3 months away. I come to Sydney on 5 week holidays from uni every 3 months or so and in-between then i come down occasionally on weekends to visit for days. We have been together for just over a year and celebrated our anniversary first ever anniversary for both of us less than a month ago where I took her out to dinner and we went to an amusement park and acted like kids. We are both This absolutely destroyed me when she told me this yesterday afternoon. When she first told me I showed no emotion and took it like a man. She was crying when she said it but I didnt. Then a puppy came over to us and just sat itself in the middle of us, licking us both. This cheered us up a bit for a minute but when it left it was sad again. I left quickly in my car but couldnt bring myself to leave her street, and i eventually sat on her street in my car crying my eyes out. I called her and i went back to her room where we cried together and I said how much I loved her and we hugged each other for ages. She let me see her this morning where i read something to her that i wrote last night, saying all the things i will miss and thanking her for loving me and letting me love her while crying my eyes out. She asked me to send it to her via email and i dropped her off at university and that is the last we spoke. She says she just changed a lot of the past year and didnt feel the same about me. I am leaving to go back to home in 2 days because my last semester at uni starts. Share Share this post on Digg Del.
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It's Metafilter's 20th anniversary! To celebrate, scan some cats or help fund Mefi! I broke up with my first girlfriend of 2 years last night; did I do the right thing? I thought she was beautiful, and I had never dated before. We started dating 6 months before I graduated, she is 20 now and I am 19 we both lost our virginity to each other. What developed initially from a typical horney adolescent relationship turned into something strong and with actual integrity. She has a lengthy dysfunctional family history, which she is currently seeing a therapist for. I think to some extent she finds stability with me for that reason.
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Im sorry to bother you like this but im just such an emotional mess without my girlfriend. I fifst her so much i want her back but she doesnt feel what she used to feel and doesnt like me as much as she Animated anniversary images to because i was pushing her mf for being clingy when i never knew that i was. Muchohentia felt like this for 3 months and told me this in december. We were on break, the first few days we hard but worked because she started missing me, but then our break got complicated when SHE started flirting with me again. So we were on break yet we didnt act like we were for a month but she knew she still needed space i dont know why she didn't just tell me that in the first place. Her last try wkth this break was only a day but she said she wasn't feeling it. She hurt me so much and i miss her and want her back. I don't feel like the break was fair. She flirted girlfrifnd me which made the break complicated for a month, then only gave our 2nd break one day. She doesn't like me how she used to, how can i get her to? How can i show her im My first girlfriend broke up with me clingy?
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You can't expect to go from being infatuated to being completely out of love. Hi everyone just thought id post for abit of an update.
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Sep 13, · No! Don't do it. When ever there's a major change like that, our first response is always to "Fix things". That only complicates things more. Think about why you broke up with her in the first place. I know the feeling of being heart broken. It's. May 14, · What Your Breakup Will Tell You About Your Ex-Girlfriend (No Matter Who Broke Up With Whom) we had only happiness and she told me that but suddendly she broke up with me. She told me the first time she wanted to break up, so i insisted and she told me she needed a time to think about, she was having a hard time. Hey me and my girlfriend Author: Kate. Why has my girlfriend dumped me? As I said, break ups always have a reason behind them. I know a lot of people think, my girlfriend broke up with me for no reason, but I can tell you that there is always a reason. It could be something huge, or a build up of a bunch of little things.